The Will to Succeed

The dreaded F Word: failure. Who wants failure? Despite what many self-help gurus write about bouncing back from failure, it is a painful experience. When your results do not match your expectations, it is natural to feel lousy and disappointed.

My triathlon buddy, Hui Koon reported on his recent Challenge Cairns 2011. Like I (at IM Lanzarote) he, too, had a tough day at the office. He gives a blow-by-blow account of his racing experience and disappointment at not meeting his target. You did very well, Bro! Live to recover and race another day!

Being resilient is about landing softly and not hard. You create a cushion to your fall, so that you recover quickly to achieve your goals later. Patience is part of the equation, so bask in the entire process. Sometimes, we have to take two steps back so that we can advance three steps. We rarely need to start from scratch. That is where base training, an analogy for experience and wisdom comes in. What happens between discovering failure and attaining that much appreciated sense of success matter! Refine after you define. Define who you are in different ways.

When there’s a will, there’s another way to your success. Forward and onwards!

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Am now overseas; my second trip in a fortnight. I will teach for the next two days, and face professional salespeople who are very familiar about their industry and discipline. What I will offer will be insights to the total experience of selling, a more exquisite process and assisting models for engineering a pleasant experience for both seller and buyer. The hotel I am staying in has the best audio-visual assistance: a flat-screen television which you can plug-and-play your notebook, with accompanying DVD player and speakers for a great presentation experience.

Bloody luxury, I say, and I am learning to savour it; more trips to follow and more hotels to review…

Cracking the Double Century-Ride

This morning, I decided to attempt a 200K ride. I rode on my road-bike, with integrated aero-bars, and road-tyres. In the past, I used my ZIPPS 404 that were light, durable and exceeded my expectations once I pushed past 33kph.  42K into the ride, on the second of the 30K Selarang/Coastal Road loop, Hui Koon suffered a flat – a group of roadies riding with us heard the loud ‘pop’. His tyre had a two-inch gash, which pretty much destroyed any chance of patching it, or completing the ride. Disappointedly, we flagged down a cab and he loaded up his bike. I could tell he was very disappointed. I am sure he will do some hard rides in the coming week to compensate for the missed opportunity.

I managed 193K after being battered by sidewinds and headwinds, the dreaded heat, and after I witnessed a fallen cyclist; I think she was bleeding at her chin. Fortunately, her friends were with her and tended to her, sitting her up and assuring her; there was also a suspect truck adjacent to them. It was nearly one o’clock in the afternoon and I decided to head back home due to the insistent heat. My quads were noticeably tight as I did 5 loops worth of gentle slopes; in fact, this was my longest ride so far. My longest one recently was about 70K. I had spent the past six months on developing my marathon legs. After Berlin, I did a 30K and 15K race, and decided that I better get my posterior on the saddle. The past fortnight of evening fast 30-60K rides seem to have engaged my latent riding muscles. Kevin of Perth wrote that the 7K I missed were marginal, and I agree. Today’s ride is 110-120K more than I have done for a while. It was a pity I could have enjoyed more company: I was riding shotgun before I went solo.

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Is Macca giving 2011 Kona Ironman the flick? It was reported that this looks likely as he just won his second Ironman World Championships title three years apart in the seventh fastest time ever. Next to fellow Australian, Craig Alexander (twice world champion), he may be the oldest competitor to defend his title, which will be challenging in the face of new and hungry professional triathletes. Macca blew his chance to defend his title in 2008 when he experienced mechanical issues with his bike. It must be sweet to savour success twice (at Kona) in one’s career.

In conversations with friends, it seems that most prefer Crowie’s introverted personality. The extraverted, chatty, and smack-talking Macca may be more direct and honest, however he seems to back up his opinions with performance. It has been four times in a row, since 2007 where Australians have dominated in the Ironman World Championships reign. Rinnie joins them as the female Australian pro to win Kona this year. Mirinda Carfrae assumes the title after Chrissy Wellington, and before that Australian Olympian, Michellie Jones. In Aussie-speak, a braggart is a ‘tall poppycock’. Personally, I like some pre-race excitement, like the Ali-Frazier press conferences in the 1970’s, and also the WWE harangues. Sometimes, the bark is louder than the bite.